Mentoring

What would you like to learn from a Professional Dominatrix? How to whip your submissives safely? How to command a room? Or maybe how to become a Pro Domme yourself? Or maybe you simply would like to talk to someone who's have "been there, done that" a challenging moment in your kinky journey? I got you.

After a few successful test-sessions, I'm happy to announce that I'm now offering Mentoring Sessions. The sessions are tailored to your needs, wants and curiosity, and have very friendly prices of 100/hour (compared to session tributes). Not calling it a Tribute, because we won't be in a D/s dynamic through this. The idea is to offer a tailored experience for you where I can share some of my knowledge and experience acquired through my own journey.

If you'd like an online mentoring session, feel free to DM me as well and we can work something out.

How does it work?

1- Reach out through email telling me a bit about yourself, and what would you like to talk about. Examples below.
2- If the mentoring includes some in-scene parts (i.e. "how to use a flogger safely"), you will need to provide a space for that yourself. If it's just a talk, we can meet somewhere like a quiet area of a coffee place, restaurant or even a park.
3 - I'll show up to the date and time we agreed on and we'll talk. Everything in we talk about it totally confidential, and you can expect complete discretion from me.
4 - If the mentoring session involves practical in-scene parts, you may bring a "punching bag" submissive, to be our guinea pig for the session. If you don't have one, let me know and that can be arranged.

Examples

Scene-related:

Non-verbal communication for Dominance
Safety, technique and grace on: flogging, bondage, foot play etc
How to improve yourself as a Top: techniques and human connection
Anything consent-related
Trauma & BDSM

Work-related

Using FemDom as leverage for Workplace Empowerment for women
Verbal communication for Dominance in difficult conversations
Becoming a Pro Domme: challenges and opportunities
Privacy, data, payment systems and digital challenges for Pro Dommes

Love & Intimacy

Navigating Kink & Polyamory
BDSM inside Love relationships
Love inside BDSM relationships

What I bring

6y+ of full time experience in Professional FemDom
Academic Research Thesis around Power Dynamics & Society
Vanila workplace experience in the Netherlands and abroad
First-hand experience in BDSM in love relationships and polyamory
Trauma-informed, LGBT+ inclusive approach
Couples, trouples or policules welcome

What Mentoring Sessions do NOT include

No FemDom from me. We won't be in a D/s dynamic. This is not a FemDom session.
I'm not a licensed therapist, and these sessions are not meant to replace therapy.
Don't expect me to show up in full-on latex-and-leather Dominatrix outfits
A place for the session, if required, is also on you.

Contact

Introduce yourself properly. Let me know a bit about yourself and makes sure to include:

Your interests
Your boundaries / hard limits
Health issues that could affect the dynamic (i.e: post-surgery, a 'bad knee', asthma etc)
Dates you'd be available for the session

Only half of the initial messages I receive are minimally intelligible. The others, I don't bother to reply to. Pick your half.

Here is an example of an acceptable message. Feel free to use it as a template:

"Hello Maya,
My name is _____. I'm visiting Amsterdam next week and me and my partner would love a Mentoring session to learn how to introduce FemDom into our relationship. Could you please let us know your availability?
Looking forward to hearing back from you."

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